The name won't change, so I'm not sure how to address this with my staff member.Īlison Green offers the letter writer a script for addressing this behavior with their employee. I don't know if I can or should do anything because her work is up to par.
However, she continues to complete all her work properly, be professional and warm to clients, arrive on time, etc. She won't talk to me unless she has no other choice, and some of my other staff came to me because she is telling everyone who works here what a bad boss I am. Even if she were pregnant, I don't see why our using the name means she can't.Įver since she heard me answer the question, she has been cold and huffy toward me. She is not currently pregnant and said herself there are no immediate plans for kids in her future.
My staff member is upset because she wants to use that same name when she has kids. We have chosen a name that can be given to either a boy or a girl and has significance to both our families. One of them is upset because she heard me answer another staff member's question about whether we have chosen a name. We just made her pregnancy public to everyone. My wife is 12 weeks pregnant with our first child. Should I Tell My Employee I Know She’s Been Badmouthing Me Since She Found Out I’m Giving My Baby A Name She Likes? “She needs to take a step back as a guest at a friends wedding and let the day be about the couple.” Read the rest of their answers. “The wedding is not her chance to make a creative splash,” one of them writes. The commenters on the r/AmItheAsshole subreddit generally take the letter writer’s side. Should i just let her go with the dress? Am i the asshole in this situation? The wedding is next month, so she has plenty of time to think about another thing to wear. Now, nat is upset with me and claiming that i am “throwing water in her flame of creativity”. My friend is not a big fan of the way my GF dresses and i think this dress may cause an certain uproar in the wedding.
I told her, maybe that is not really appropriated? The dress in question would be full of little stuffed rats, pride flags and a big “I SUPPORT GAY RATS” on the front. But now she wants to wear a dress inspired on the meme “gay rat wedding”. The thing is, sometimes she likes to incorporate memes into her clothes. Don’t get me wrong, i never had a problem with that! In fact, i love the way she dresses because she loves to do so, and i am happy if she is happy. Picture Harley Finkle from wizards of waverly place, you will get the idea. My (M25) girlfriend (F30) Nat has a very particular sense of style. Here's a roundup of the most interesting, thought-provoking and surprising questions that our favorite columnists (and subreddits) addressed in recent days.Īm I A Jerk For Asking My Girlfriend Not To Wear A ‘Gay Rat Wedding’ Themed Dress To My Friend’s Wedding? There are too many excellent advice columns to keep up with, so we're committed to bringing you links to the best advice column questions and answers every week.